TemplatesFriendsgiving

A Friendsgiving list that keeps the table balanced.

For 12 guests, ask for side dish (4), drinks (2), appetizer (2), dessert (2), and plates, napkins, and cutlery (1), plus the rest of the list below.

For 12 guests

Friendsgiving

Main

Main dish1 spot

Sides and starters

Side dish4 spots
Appetizer2 spots

Desserts and drinks

Dessert2 spots
Drinks2 spots

Supplies

Plates, napkins, and cutlery1 spot
Ice1 spot

How many to ask for

Spots by guest count.

Each count is the ratio per 10 guests, rounded up. Change any number after you create the event.

ItemRatio10 guests20 guests30 guests50 guests
Main dish1 at any size1111
Side dish3 per 1036915
Appetizer1 per 101235
Dessert1 per 101235
Drinks1.5 per 102358
Plates, napkins, and cutlery1 at any size1111
Ice1 at any size1111

Tips

Small things that make it go smoothly.

Decide the main first

Whoever hosts usually takes the main. Say so in the description so nobody else roasts a turkey.

Leave room for favorites

A side dish spot with a note lets people bring the dish their family always made.

Plan for leftovers

Ask guests to bring a container, or add a spot for to-go boxes.

What Pitch In Now won’t do yet

Pitch In Now doesn’t send reminder emails yet, so plan to text the group a day or two before.

People claim items, not times. There are no time slots or shifts yet.

Free, no account for guests

Start from this list and share one link.

Create an event